This weekend my daughter Melanie is
participating in the RIDE TO CONQUER CANCER...... a two day 200km bike ride between
Montreal and Québec City.
She says on
her ride profile page under my picture – “We each have a reason to ride.
Here's mine”. Few words with a million
emotions packed into them. At 4 a.m.
this morning I received a txt message..... "Mom I need you to put a “Team Nanny”
sticker on my jersey please!" She always was a
child to leave things to the last minute!
But she always knew I would be there to help do whatever needed to be
done. Some people would say I spoiled my
girls.... that I do too much for them.
NO I do not. I LOVE my girls, and
as my daughter Cindy once told me just after she had become a mom, “You cannot *SPOIL*
a child with *LOVE*!! And she was
right. I have always agreed. And I know in my heart, for the past 30+
years of being a mother and a grandmother, my children would do the same for
me..... anytime, anything, anywhere, in a heartbeat. Because
they love me.
So the “Team Nanny” sticker was custom made and ironed on to the
jersey, and enclosed in the bag was this thank you card from me to my baby girl
who will take a small piece of me with her on this journey.
It says.....
Melanie,
There are never words that can express what
survivorship means at any cost. Just
looking into your beautiful eyes, the window to your soul, is reason enough for
me to always keep fighting. Be safe on
your “EPIC RIDE”..... one day these annual fundraisers will be the reason for
the cure, but as long as cancer exists and takes or hurts those people we
love..... KEEP RIDING ..... You carry my heart in yours, every time it
beats. Stay safe this weekend baby
girl....
Love 4
ever, Mommy xoxo
And to all the family members and friends who
sponsored her this year, THANK YOU! Your
heartfelt generosity is so gratefully appreciated. One day we will have a cure and the suffering will stop. But this year alone I have both family (little Hailey) and friends (Lorna, Nat, Eden, Rob, Linda....) that were diagnosed and are fighting cancer and I know you have somebody you know too. You know me. Cancer doesn't always end when the cancer cells are destroyed. In the process healthy cells are destroyed too. And the side effects can last a lifetime.
such beautiful thoughts ... so beautifully stated!
ReplyDeleteKathy.....it seems in many ways you have 'passed the torch'....bless you for that....my thoughts and prayers are with Cindy!!!
ReplyDeleteThanks Sunny! I was a tad emotional! But it got done... Just in time!
ReplyDeleteI was more than a tad emotional just reading it, ForestChild!
DeleteLiz,
ReplyDeleteI wish I could do the ride! I am proud of my girls, and I am one very lucky Mom and am so happy she is riding in honor of me and not in 'memory' of me! I know you understand, since our journeys are interlinked forever! xo
Kath